Powerful moment today. Jana was home sick with a fever and I needed her to nap along with baby. We all lay there on the bed (me exhausted as usual). Jana has this habit of putting her feet near baby’s head – a little too close for comfort – sometimes even trying to kick her. This time her hands wandered trying to squeeeeeeeze something so I quickly took her hands into mine and we both fell asleep this way. What I realised later was, if I’d lost my temper, like I usually do, and constantly bat her hand away, she gets upset and so do I. Me holding her hands stopped her hurting baby and helped her fall asleep instantly.